Why Gay Men Are Worth So Much To Facebook 270
Barence writes "PC Pro has a feature on how social networks sold your privacy, which includes some interesting comparisons on the value of different demographics to Facebook. For example, an advert that targets everyone within a 10-mile radius of a medium-sized British town (Dorking) is valued at 28p per click by Facebook's advertising tool. However, targeting single gay men in the area with a preference for nightclubbing raises the price to 71p per click — 2.5x the price of targeting the general public. Such precise targeting also raises other issues. Whittling down ads to target such precise demographics can result in ads targeting as few as 20 people, making it theoretically possible to identify those targeted. 'I think the worst scenario might be where someone who hates gays uses Facebook's targeting to identify gay users and later attack them,' says Paul Francis, scientific director of the Max Planck Institute for Software Systems."
Wait, wait, let me get this right (Score:5, Funny)
Paul Francis, uh, "scientific" director of the Max Planck Institute for Software Systems, has figured out that if I choose to declare that I'm gay on my public Failbook profile, then people can use that information to determine my sexuality?
Whoa, that's some cutting edge research there. Thanks for looking out for me, Paul.
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I see your point, but I'd reply that if you don't want to "come out", you shouldn't declare yourself gay anywhere and most certainly not on facebook of all places.
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You don't have to declare yourself to come out -- someone else can do it for you. People who don't want to announce their sexuality (for whatever reason) are exposed every day -- not in the way stated above, maybe, but it certainly happens.
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I believe there was a story within the past year where a team of researchers found that they could determine with ~85% (if I recall) accuracy the sexual orientation of a facebook member simply by analyzing who they are friends with.
You don't have to declare yourself to come out -- someone else can do it for you. People who don't want to announce their sexuality (for whatever reason) are exposed every day -- not in the way stated above, maybe, but it certainly happens.
Depending on whose numbers you use the gay population is as low as 3% to as much as 10%. So, I would think, in a random sample, that you could hit 85% accuracy without analyzing anything about the facebook user just by saying heterosexual.
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I see your point, but I'd reply that if you don't want to "come out", you shouldn't declare yourself gay anywhere and most certainly not on facebook of all places.
Some people may be "out" to friends and family, but not to coworkers. Facebook may interfere sexual orientation from friends and from participation in certain events, even if you left the "prefers" choice blank in your profile. And theoretically they could interfere it from the photos at which you look the longest/most often, even if you're still completely closeted...
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But it's not a matter of "declaring yourself" gay - it's a matter of facebook targeting being able to infer your orientation based on the information you provide (friends, locations, likes, un-friendings, etc) - information that by itself doesn't mean anything, and that many people might not consider revealing when considered individually.
That said, the article didn't focus on gay men - it was basically a paragraph and a couple of scattered references. The actual point is that facebook can provide remarkabl
Re:Wait, wait, let me get this right (Score:5, Funny)
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If you have an Amazon account that you normally buy typical guy stuff with, buy women's clothes and see what happens, ideally something like a sexy women's halloween costume.
To make it stop, go into your recommendations section and tag the item as a gift.
Re:Wait, wait, let me get this right (Score:4, Funny)
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I agree that the idea is kind of silly, mostly because it's just too much damn work to attack a gay person when there are significantly easier avenues available, but it's not as simple as you make it out to be.
If your profile is wide open to the world, then yeah, it's precisely that silly. If it's restricted to friends and family, it's still available to targeted advertising and that advertising can "leak" data. Or at least that's his premise.
Public safety issue? Not really. If you want to attack so
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Paying money to target advertising to leak private data so you can track them down to attack is, well, an awful lot of effort.
Could be interesting for politicians who want to "expose" politicians from opposing parties. Given that 10% of the population would be vulnerable, and most parties have more than 10 members, this could be a worthwhile method of embarassing opposing viewpoints.
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Given that 10% of the population would be vulnerable, and most parties have more than 10 members
But party members are unlikely to be a random sample from the population.
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Re:Wait, wait, let me get this right (Score:5, Insightful)
The part I liked was this theory that some evil character might use facebook ads to find openly gay men by targeting their demographic with ads, hoping they fall for those ads, then somehow trying to convert their clicks to identities with real contact info... so, what, they can go commit a 'hate crime'...?
Even for crazy SOB's, that's about the worst plan ever. Like, villain in a TV special, dumb.
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if I choose to declare that I'm gay
Pssht! I've got a secret for you: even if you leave the "prefers women or men" selector blank, Facebook can still figure it out. They just need to look at your friends, and if a sizable number of them did chose to come out of the closet, they can infer with a reasonable probability that you are gay too, even if you're still in the closet (as far as Facebook is concerned).
The effect is pretty obvious if you are gay, and live in a reasonably small town. Just click any person in the same town, look at the com
Re:Wait, wait, let me get this right (Score:4, Funny)
Sweet jesus, if that's really how hard they party, I need more gay friends.
"Guys, I think we really gotta take it down a notch. This is the third time this month we've woken up, hung over, on Sunday morning in Mogadishu. It's fun, but this walk of shame is killing me."
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Bradley Cooper finds a husband and the gang ends up war torn Africa where nothing but highjinks and babies with AK-47s ensue.
Actually, am I the only one who would go see that?
Re:Wait, wait, let me get this right (Score:4, Funny)
I'm throwing my ticket money at the computer screen right now. WHY WON'T YOU TAKE IT?
Because they're fabulous? (Score:5, Funny)
Page 3 before gay men are even mentioned and that's the headline? I'm not even going to bother making an on topic post.
The math is simple (Score:5, Insightful)
The gay's tend not to have kids. That means that they have more discretionary income. More discretionary income equates to more readily purchasing more expensive toys more often than the guy that supports a family. It's why you see shiny things like the latest Itoy so often in the hands of gay people, they can afford them. It's just math and the logic is sound.
The second part though, the idea that someone would go to all the trouble to use something like this to track down a bunch of gays is absurd. Why bother doing that when if your a nutter you just go to your local gay bar instead? You know the one that advertises to attract all of those gays?
Re:The math is simple (Score:4, Interesting)
Doesn't it work the other way too? Parents have kids, kids that need things, things that you might buy from diaperdepot.com if there were a link on your facebook page that is your only remaining connection to the independant young adult you once were.
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My guess would be that once buying habits are set for parents, they are hard to change. So advertising for that demographic would be worth less.
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Spoken as one who doesn't have kids and therefore has never faced down the "I want that"s at the end of an exhaustingly long day and just can't put up with it anymore. Advertising doesn't target the parents.
My wife is not a "girly girl" (she plays D&D). Yet the amount of pink/princess stuff in the house... (first child: girl)
And, while space is "neat", it's not fascinating. We just held a space-themed birthday party (second child: boy). Got more than a couple space-themed toys laying around.
(Third c
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yep
both my kids didn't react well to pampers so my wife and I buy Seventh Generation diapers without a second thought.
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Yes and no. Yes, someone with kids would be more likely to go to a diaper store or something. Thing is, when you have kids, you now are splitting your income 3+ ways, with only two of the people in the family making the income, if that. Those sorts of people will be looking for discounts, not ways to spend their money at boutique baby stores, unless they are very well off. When you have dual income and no kids, which is most of the gay population, you ensure that the discretionary income is maximized.
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Yes and no. Yes, someone with kids would be more likely to go to a diaper store or something.
Forget diapers... The real money comes from selling those parents toys, clothing, extra life insurance, sugar-frosted{quasi-food name}, and a mountain of stuff that they didn't really need until you convinced them that they did.
All that said, it's easier to sell parents your kid-oriented stuff by directly manipulating the kid, which means that Facebook is likely not going to charge you as much in advertising rates.
Re:The math is simple (Score:5, Informative)
Re:The math is simple (Score:4, Informative)
Actually you missed the most important part - after the spike of one-time purchases during the pregnancy, most purchases for actually raising a child are made from habits that can be influenced during the pregnancy.
That's why advertising to newly pregnant women is so profitable; if you pull it off properly, you might have a customer who will now buy things from you for the next eighteen years - and then that child will have memories of shopping at Target, and refuse to shop anywhere else (e.g, my wife absolutely refuses to shop at K-Mart and will drive further to go to a Target, just because that's where her mother shopped when she was a kid).
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In the article it's only an example that more specific groups cost more per ad, it might be the case that limiting search to heterosexuals also rises the price according to their ratio.
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not just because they're rich, but because they care more about form than function, just like women tend to.. ie the perfect apple customers.
would you like to take a free personality test?
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But all that money that "family guys" are spending - that's ALSO on products for which advertisers want to target you. The new 4x4, mortgage, insurance, family holidays, cleaning products, kids toys etc. etc.
Those are all products that get advertised heavily too, so the theory that "gays have more discretionary spend" doesn't necessarily lead to "gays are worth more per click".
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Married opposite-sex couples report the highest average household income (nearly $100,000), while the same-sex couple household income is around $86,000, which is higher than the unmarried opposite-sex partners with only an average household income of $51,275.
Now of course it is difficult to get an exact fix as there are bound to be generational differences in how "out" people are(older people tend to earn more as a tr
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I won't doubt your figures, my point is on disposable income. Kids are really expensive and they take up almost all of your discretionary income. Making more income doesn't help either as you just end up buying more expensive stuff for the kids.
It's the power of the DINK (Dual income No Kids) that makes gays such a juicy marketing target. The single guy doesn't have the Dual Income part to help his budget. Going by your figures a hetrosexual DINK couple would be even more valuable. However I would imagine t
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That data is only about couples with children, not all couples.
Also, income != discretionary income.
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I believe you missed the point. It's not a question of being possible to simply go to your local gay bar and track down a bunch of gays. The fundamental issue is that, with this, the nutters don't need to go to your loc
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The gay's tend not to have kids. That means that they have more discretionary income. More discretionary income equates to more readily purchasing more expensive toys more often than the guy that supports a family. It's why you see shiny things like the latest Itoy so often in the hands of gay people, they can afford them. It's just math and the logic is sound.
The second part though, the idea that someone would go to all the trouble to use something like this to track down a bunch of gays is absurd. Why bother doing that when if your a nutter you just go to your local gay bar instead? You know the one that advertises to attract all of those gays?
A single person (gay or otherwise) tends to spend the same as a married person with kids. The difference is what the spending is used for.
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This exact point was made by a gay friend of mine a few days ago (but in a totally unrelated conversation). Of course, the original statement was that "Breeders don't have play money." But it's the same sentiment......advertisers want the dollars, so they target the people who have the most of them.
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The gay's tend not to have kids.
Not being able to adopt has some effect on that.
Re:The math is simple (Score:4, Informative)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Gay_Adoption_Map_North_America.svg [wikipedia.org]
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Actually the numbers I've seen indicate that gay men (research usually focuses on gay men for whatever reason instead of lesbians--I suppose lesbianism is a little less contentious?) actually earn significantly less than our non-gay counterparts. For instance, this analysis [uci.edu] says
I'm not really sure what the cause is. Workplace discrimination? Less interest in careers, more interest in sex (dubious)? Less impetus to earn a lot to support your family? Less education partly because of crappy high school experie
Don't want to be targeted? (Score:5, Insightful)
Re:Don't want to be targeted? (Score:5, Funny)
Don't want to be targeted? Don't use Facebook
and don't live in a town called Dorking.
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and don't live in a town called Dorking.
Could be worse... [wikipedia.org]
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and don't live in a town called Dorking.
Could be worse... [wikipedia.org]
And we can look forward to an aptly-named [europa.eu] lager also.
On a side note, I spent a few weeks here [wikimedia.org], back in the 80s (the job was exhausting work, too).
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You say that now, until 99% of your orders get instantly sent to the spam folder just because you wrote down your delivery address.
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Oh, and don't shop at stores [nytimes.com].
Re:Don't want to be targeted? (Score:4, Informative)
Why? We knew that already. It's posted every single time there's a story on Facebook.
How good is this targetting? (Score:2, Insightful)
Will it also include all the deeply-closeted homosexuals who always seem to be the most vocal gay-bashers in any given group? Because I'm thinking that if someone like Ted Haggard [wikipedia.org] sees his own house on the list, it may actually result in a helpful moment of epiphany.
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Eh, it's trivial to identify who is a Ted Haggard type:
Are they loudly, constantly, angrily anti-gay and bring up he issue constantly and without any reason?
If yes, they are almost certainly so deep into the closet the live in Narnia.
See: reaction formation.
A profitable minority. (Score:4, Insightful)
It comes down to a group that doesn't quite fit in well with the general public and Adds saying We will welcome you to come to our location where you won't feel like an outcast. So Advertising targeted to that group is far more effective... Thus costs more.
Many Other Minorities don't work as well.
Minority Races - for the most part the have a lower then average salary. That means most of the people will be less likely to spend money.
Non-Christians - For the religious non-Christians they have their places of worship where they feel like they belong. For Atheists for most places they go they are able to pass as a normal citizen. And if their religion doesn't have much of a dress requirement they are normally able to pass off anyways. For some of the real minorities the numbers are too small to advertise for.
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For the most part they are living an above average standard of life, so they have money
Citation needed. The numbers I've seen indicate the opposite--that gay men earn significantly less than straight men which suggests a lower standard of living. A brief search for standard of living instead of earnings came up with nothing.
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I am Implying that Atheists are a Minority Group that if they are known they are an Atheist they will be treated as some type of social outcast from the general public.
Still the Normal Citizen are WASP White Anglo Saxon Protestant. The fact that a group is so how not normal doesn't mean that they are bad or should strive towards normality. But for the most part if you are WAS most people will assume the P, unless they make a point about it. By stating that they are Catholic, Atheist, Jewi
Meaningless numbers (Score:4, Informative)
For example, an advert that targets everyone within a 10-mile radius of a medium-sized British town (Dorking) is valued at 28p per click by Facebook's advertising tool. However, targeting single gay men in the area with a preference for nightclubbing raises the price to 71p per click
That typically means young and single, which has always been a very attractive market with a lot of disposable time and money. Can we get a comparison to straight people with a preference to nightclubbing? Of course a blanket ad trying to sell to everyone is worth far far less...
The consumer. (Score:3, Insightful)
All companies care about is advertising turning into real sales. Gay guys are likely closer to females in terms of frequent frivolous spending, i.e. spending on clothing and other accessories. Not that guys necessarily spend less, but their spending is more focused and comes in bigger chunks at less frequent intervals. Also, gay guys, like women, are more fashion and image conscious which means they'll buy into fads more readily and willfully overpay for products they fund appealing. The invention of the metrosexual was an attempt to bring that same mindset to straight men. I'd say it's met with some success, but it's certainly not as reliable as other demographics.
The interest in Facebook is obvious; targeted advertising. The ultimate goal for any company in the consumer space is that we all turn into consumer whores; gender or sexual orientation is irrelevant unless a particular demographic shows increased inclination to spend.
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I am somehow unsure of the Dorking "metrosexual" demographic.
I'd suppose it to be similar to that of rural New Hamshire, or Labrador, if you like.
"My name is Daffydd, and I am the only gay in the village."
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The ultimate goal for any company in the consumer space is that we all turn into consumer whores
Yes and no. That's more the hard-core side of marketing, or the cynical perception of it. The simple fact is that everybody buys stuff. In the corporate world, everybody sells stuff. The goal of marketing is to influence the first group to buy the stuff of the second group. Yes, there's upselling and driven demand, but for a large number of products, businesses just want you to choose them instead of their competitor when you break out your wallet.
As you said - for discretionary spending gays are prime real
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Umm, Not all of us? Trying to draw a connection between gay males' shopping habits and st
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Two sides to every coin (Score:2)
There's a certain dichotomy to targeted advertising. It's ideal for both the consumer and business in the sense that advertising costs less when you only have to pay for people who are likely to be interested in your product. Even if the per-click is 2.5x as much, if you are targeting an audience that is 1/10 the size of the general population (or smaller), its better. While there are some businesses which operate on a premium product, in general market pressures will keep costs to a typical margin over th
Welcome to Facebook (Score:2, Insightful)
You're the product, not the customer. And products don't get to complain about privacy, they're products!
Dammit (Score:5, Funny)
I knew something was odd about that add for a Gay Male who finished school in '95 in the small town of Skibbereen working as a barista in Starbucks in Blackrock, with horn rim glasses and wearing a hoodie currently typing on ... aaaarrrrgggggggggg
WTF Slashdotters!? (Score:2)
Are you serious? People still see ads on the web?
http://www.firefox.com/ [firefox.com]
http://www.adblockplus.com/ [adblockplus.com]
Please help me help the advertisers realize they are useless and unwanted. Use ABP today.
Yes, I do still see ads! (Score:2)
Two right there! How can I filter them?
Dangerous (Score:2)
Given events of the last 40 years, I think a much bigger danger is that someone would use Facebook's targeting to identify Jews in their area and attack them.
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following people home from the synagogue just isn't Kewl enough for millenial haters I guess.
Targeting 20 people not profitable... (Score:2)
What?!? Wait?!? Why?!? (Score:2)
Not a facebook user- so this seems rather odd to me.
So there is a checkbox for "orientation" that is a default profile set up on facebook? That just seems wrong from the outset.
Given many in society actively discriminate against gays- it sounds like facebook is just making it easier for people to do that. Why on earth does facebook need to ask that? It's not a dating site.
Staight people wouldn't hesitate checking the straight box. So if people are "undeclared" on facebook, I imagine there is a good chan
Data quality? (Score:2)
I wonder if maybe Facebook is one of the only (or best) sources of demographic data which can accurately tag someone as "gay", particularly since the users themselves tend to be the ones providing that data?
The Worst Singerio (Score:2)
'I think the worst scenario might be where someone who hates gays uses Facebook's targeting to identify gay users and later attack them,'says Paul Francis, scientific director of the Max Planck Institute for Software Systems."
I think the best scenario might be where someone who hates Justin Bieber uses Facebook's targeting to identify Justin Beeber and later attack him.
Re:What about ladyboys/shemales? (Score:5, Funny)
Re:What about ladyboys/shemales? (Score:5, Funny)
You'll have to excuse Slashdot, you have to understand that to many of us a shemale is uncomfortably close to a transporter accident, so it's bothering us at a primal geek level.
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Tough room. Or, in other words, your joke just wasn't funny. Unless your karma is rock solid or you're certain what you're writing is hilarious, going for funny can be dangerous. If you succeed in getting that +5 funny, it gains no karma at all, while if the joke fails you'll be modded "troll" or "flamebait".
Damn it, Bob, you got it totally wrong! (Score:2, Funny)
Signed, MZ.
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"Dear Pot,
What you find attractive is an abhorrent abomination in God's sight. What I find attractive is objectively beautiful, and in no way subject to my own tastes, preferences, and biases.
Also, while I'm no queer, I do have some faggot friends, so I think this qualifies me to speak as an expert on gay stuff.
No homo!
Sincerely, Kettle."
You like girls. He likes trans-women. On an individual basis, I'd be perfectly inclined to grant him the point that some "ladyboys" are "way more cuter" than some "actua
Re:What about ladyboys/shemales? (Score:4, Interesting)
The only thing making ladyboys "way more cuter" than actual females is your fetish for them.
No amount of surgery makes them look like actual females without extensive makeup and photo angles taken to compliment a feature or to exaggerate one.
I say this as someone who is not against gays or transgender people. In fact, I have many LGBT friends and even some in the family... so it's not a bias, just stating what I see. I guess much the same way you are, but your fetish is clouding your eyesight.
I can personally say that this is not true. Not based on some images on the internet, but real life experience. Granted, I do live in Thailand and the ladyboys here are generally more feminine and look more like women than in western countries, but the point stands. Of course, there are also many that don't really pass that, but then there are those true gems too. Just last week I met one ladyboy who I sure as hell wouldn't had recognized as such if it weren't for the established I was at.
It has nothing to do with general fetish towards ladyboys. For the most part they don't interest me that much. Which of course is true for many "real" women too. However, she had spent the time and effort to make herself look beautiful and she really was. Sat down, had a few drinks, kissed some, went back to apartment and had some fun. Her "special" parts didn't matter, and why would they. I know geeks like to put everything into binary code and either 0 or 1, but in real life it's not that simple. And no, I'm not gay - I just don't discriminate ladyboys just for the fact that they have at one time been men. It's stupid to limit yourself like that if you otherwise like someone or think she looks nice.
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Your tone when talking about them would certainly call that statement into question.
All you have "proven" is that you have some friends who you don't feel are passable. From that, you have generalized to the assertion that "no transgendered person is passable as the opposite sex, and the only reason somebody would find them attractive is a fetish." Pointing out the obvious transgendered person at a gay pride parade doesn't prove your point, either.
And for what it's wor
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Why does everyone always just talk about heterosexuals and gays? What about ladyboys and shemales? They get no mention in western world, and everyone looks weirdly at them, while they are perfectly fine in many south east asian countries. People aren't against gays anymore, they are against shemales.
Shirley is that you?
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Re:What about ladyboys/shemales? (Score:5, Interesting)
That said, it seems humorous to complain about how trans-erasure has kept people from acknowledging male-to-female transsexuals while also ignoring female-to-male transsexuals. At least trans-women are noticed because they are sexualized - trans-men seem almost wholly ignored in the populace.
But to answer your question more directly, the reason nobody talked about them in *this* article is because they are not a lucrative target market for advertisements. The homosexual male community is not targeted for advertisement because they are so numerous, but because the retail and marketing world believes that gay males spend a lot of money and, more importantly, influence the fashions and tastes of the heterosexual people surrounding them. Clothing stores see gay men as trend setters, so they believe that getting gay men to adopt their clothes will lead the heterosexual people to follow. Because of rampant discrimination and erasure, trans people are not perceived as having the same trend-setting appeal.
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why are average guys also not perceived---entirely correctly---as having the same trend-setting appeal?
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Hey, while you were out, every advertisement featuring hot girls in bikins (with absolutely no relevance to body spray, cars, guns, energy drinks, music, or any other product they're used to sell) called - they want their broad brush back, they need to paint something.
This just in: If you run a gay nightclub, it is a better value to target your advertising at gay males who like clubbing. Also, if you sell refrigerators, it is a better value to target your advertising at people who don't live at the north
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While this was trollish, it touches on a valid point: it's not the gay demographic that's worth so much, it's any narrowly targeted regional demographic. The summary is worded as if gay men were the focus of the article, but it's just a single example culled out of a four-page article.
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Re:What about ladyboys/shemales? (Score:4, Insightful)
Actually, in general, the trans community (US) wants nothing to do with such people, they are pretty ostracized and many trans peeps consider their very mention (not by just term, but their existence) to be offensive.. so they are generally not welcome under the 'transgendered' umbrella.
Well, well. It looks like gay people are only human after all. They have the same kind of prejudices and hypocrisy as the rest of us. I hear that gay people also attack men who identify themselves as bi-sexual too.
As an outsider looking in, I find the entire thing to be quite amusing. Perhaps the gay people should get their own house in order before they start attacking society in general demanding special rights and treatment.
Re:What about ladyboys/shemales? (Score:5, Funny)
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This has, unfortunately, become a real problem with the gay right's movement over the last two decades, which often puts me in a rather uncomfortable position of supporting their cause y
Re:What about ladyboys/shemales? (Score:4, Informative)
Actually, most of the trans people I know don't have a problem with drag/ladyboys.... "shemales" is a different story... that's offensive because it's specifically tied to sexual fetishism, but drag and ladyboys are performance. Transsexualism isn't performance, it's real, and outside of people who are just beginning their "real life experience" period, I don't know any trans people who have a problem with the idea of drag. They don't like to be identified as it (because they aren't), but they can accept it as a different concept.
That being said, there's a whole lot more to "transgendered" than transsexualism. Genderqueer, people who simply refuse to associate with either specific gender, androgynous culture, etc., all fit within the umbrella term.
And yes, I do know several transgendered individuals, some of whom are also transsexual. It comes from my volunteer work with the local queer community center.
Also worth noting... historically treatment for transgender issues was restricted by a (now debunked) theory that very narrowly defined what could be accepted as "trans". That created an inaccurate skew in terms of the sexuality... in Canada, for example, until the last couple of years it was impossible for somebody who identified as homosexual to get gender reassignment therapy. If you were a transwoman, you, by definition, had to like men exclusively, sexually. That has changed, and a very large number of "gay" trans people have come out of the woodwork and are now seeking therapy. I would expect that when the dust settles it'll be somewhere between 1/3 and 1/2 of trans people who are homosexual.
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I see many who feel 'ladyboy' and 'newhalf' are just as offensive as 'shemale', essentially leaving the trans community with no non-offensive (english) word for such people, which I tend to interpret as their existence being offensive.
I suppose. In truth, I live in a country that's generally fairly open to it (still have our fair share of stupid, mind you), and in a city that's especially open to it. There's still a number of people for whom it's automatically a bad thing, and I don't think we'll ever reach a day when guys who think that getting aroused when looking at an attractive transwoman makes them gay will be gone, but things are getting better. Slowly but surely, things are improving for trans people, and I'm seeing it first hand
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broad tent
I see what you did there.
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Yeah it's all fun and games until you see that she has a dick, and yours goes soft instantly, and then feels like it's retracting into your body. Well, that's how it works for me and most guys who call themselves straight anyways. There's a reason guys prank each other with galleries of "hot women" who are revealed to have a dick in the final pic.
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Yeah it's all fun and games until you see that she has a dick, and yours goes soft instantly, and then feels like it's retracting into your body. Well, that's how it works for me and most guys who call themselves straight anyways. There's a reason guys prank each other with galleries of "hot women" who are revealed to have a dick in the final pic.
And do you have a real life experience of this, or are you basing it on someone surprising you with such image on the internet? Because in real life it is quite different. I used to think just like that, and still somewhat do, but it only applies to internet. In real world, not so much, if the "girl" is nice looking.
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They could place an add for free beer... umm... free appletinis.
Based on who responded to the ad- they could collect a list... worst of all- they need never give out the free appletinis.